Take some time and read some articles that might bless and help
Here on Austin's Pen you can find several articles and studies that might bless you. I have been writing and organizing in order to bless you.
I have written "Our Love Story!" You can click on it and read that here These stories have been translated to Spanish for my friends.
If you truly want to be Biblical then you don't listen to gossip, you go to the source, you don't trust anyone till you investigate. There is a Biblical procedure. You can find info here. After you read any article you can go back and click on links to get more.
Somewhere along the way God's people have forgotten The More Excellent Way of Scripture. Go here and read about love. Follow along and do a study.
Why not take the time to study up on language learning, culture shock, and learning to do cross cultural ministry here.